Understanding God's Will (UGW) Intro Part 2
I think the first thing we need to do when we talk about God’s Will is to define it. When we say, “God’s Will,” I think there are actually three different things we are referring to: God’s desires, God’s plans, and what actually happens.
If you said, “It’s God’s Will that I move to New York,” it could be that you think it’s simply what God desires for you, what He wants you to do ... or that it's the one path He preplanned for you and it was your job to find "the path," the next step He planned for you ... or that since you moved to New York (or are going to) then it must have been "God’s Will" because everything that happens is "God's Will" and has been planned by and caused by Him (Calvinists would fall into this camp).
I think it causes a lot of confusion when we lump them all together as “God’s Will,” because they are all different things. And they all bring different questions to the table.
1. Such as if you say it's what God desires for us, what He wants us to do, then does it always happen, no matter what? Or can we do things He doesn't desire? Can we fail to do things He does desire? What are the consequences of this? If His Will hinges on us somehow, then what are our responsibilities? How can we figure out what He desires for us and from us?
2. If you say it's the path He preplanned for us, then the question is ... Are His plans for us fixed? Are they written in stone? Will they happen no matter what? And if His plans for us don't always automatically happen, then how does He lead us to and down the "right path"? What is our part, our responsibility in finding it? What happens if we miss it? Do we miss out forever? Is there only one path and one opportunity to find it? If we miss it, can we ever get back on that path or does He have to make a new path for us, a lesser one, Plan B?
3. If you say that whatever happens is God's Will because God's Will always happens and is the only thing that happens, then why bother putting thought or energy into making any decisions at all? Because if God actively controls everything that happens (preplans it and carries it out), then we wouldn't be responsible for or have any influence over what happens anyway, good or bad. Nothing we do or think could affect what happens or change the outcome.
This, of course, opens up a whole mess of questions about who's responsible for sin and rebellion and evil and our belief/unbelief and our problems and the consequences of our choices, etc. God or us? Do we really have any choice in the matter if God always causes everything that happens and if everything happens exactly the way God planned it? Does Him being all-powerful and sovereign have to mean that He always uses His sovereign power all the time to control everything?
Possible consequences of believing in option 2 or 3:
I think options two and three - believing God's plans are fixed and that He plans everything that happens and that everything that happens is because He planned it and caused it - could cause us to be lazy in our spiritual lives and disciplines. If we think we have no real role or responsibility in what happens, then we won't see the value in prayer or think it really matters. We won't put too much effort into our decisions, into obedience, into seeking righteousness. We'll let whatever happens happen because "everything that happens is what God wanted and God always carries out His Will ... right?" (Been there!)
Or maybe, if we think His paths are fixed, we'll stress ourselves out over finding "His Will" because we believe that He planned one particular "right path" for us ... and we have to find it or else! This might cause us to freeze up and panic about making decisions because we're so afraid about missing the path He planned for us, about being "out of His Will." (Definitely been there!)
This thinking also causes pain and heartache when we face tragedies, like a death or natural disaster or illness. Whatever God plans, happens. Right? And so whatever happens is because God planned it, right? (And if God planned it and caused it, then there is no such thing as free-will. We are just puppets on a string, acting out our prewritten roles. Right?) And we are left with the tragic belief that God wanted these bad things to happen, that He planned them, that there was nothing we could have done about it, that prayer doesn't really do anything because everything's been preplanned, that we have to simply accept these tragedies in "humility" and not be upset about them, etc.
But .. did He plan it? Was it “His Will”? Does He always do whatever He wants? Do our prayers make any difference at all? Or is our understanding of God’s Will off? Is it as fixed and "going to happen no matter what" as we think it is? Or do we have more of a role in and responsibility for getting God’s Will done than we realize?
So, which is it?
Is His Will best understood as His desires (what He wants to have happen), His plans (the path He preplanned for us, and we have to find it), or what actually happens?
In order to better understand “God’s Will,” we need to first define it. Desires? Plans? Or everything that happens?
Personally, I think that “His Will” is most accurately defined as what He desires (not an "official" definition, just my own best way to understand it). It’s what He desires for us (the choices He wants us to make and the path He wants us to take, etc.), and it’s what He desires from us (living God-glorifying lives and being obedient, etc.).
[And something I learned well after writing this series is this: If you look up the word "will" in the concordance - from verses about the things God "wills," about what His "will" is - we see that it's often about His desires, His "preferred-will," about what He wants to have happen or wants us to do, about His "best offer" to people which they then have to decide to accept or reject. And so I was right (and Calvinists are wrong) to define it as what He desires for us and from us and to believe that His Will doesn't always happen because He leaves it up to us to accept it or reject it.]
If you said, “It’s God’s Will that I move to New York,” it could be that you think it’s simply what God desires for you, what He wants you to do ... or that it's the one path He preplanned for you and it was your job to find "the path," the next step He planned for you ... or that since you moved to New York (or are going to) then it must have been "God’s Will" because everything that happens is "God's Will" and has been planned by and caused by Him (Calvinists would fall into this camp).
I think it causes a lot of confusion when we lump them all together as “God’s Will,” because they are all different things. And they all bring different questions to the table.
1. Such as if you say it's what God desires for us, what He wants us to do, then does it always happen, no matter what? Or can we do things He doesn't desire? Can we fail to do things He does desire? What are the consequences of this? If His Will hinges on us somehow, then what are our responsibilities? How can we figure out what He desires for us and from us?
2. If you say it's the path He preplanned for us, then the question is ... Are His plans for us fixed? Are they written in stone? Will they happen no matter what? And if His plans for us don't always automatically happen, then how does He lead us to and down the "right path"? What is our part, our responsibility in finding it? What happens if we miss it? Do we miss out forever? Is there only one path and one opportunity to find it? If we miss it, can we ever get back on that path or does He have to make a new path for us, a lesser one, Plan B?
3. If you say that whatever happens is God's Will because God's Will always happens and is the only thing that happens, then why bother putting thought or energy into making any decisions at all? Because if God actively controls everything that happens (preplans it and carries it out), then we wouldn't be responsible for or have any influence over what happens anyway, good or bad. Nothing we do or think could affect what happens or change the outcome.
This, of course, opens up a whole mess of questions about who's responsible for sin and rebellion and evil and our belief/unbelief and our problems and the consequences of our choices, etc. God or us? Do we really have any choice in the matter if God always causes everything that happens and if everything happens exactly the way God planned it? Does Him being all-powerful and sovereign have to mean that He always uses His sovereign power all the time to control everything?
[Or do Calvinists simply have a wrong view of His all-powerfulness, His sovereignty? I believe God is indeed "all-powerful," just not in the way Calvinists say.
Calvinists insist that for God to be "sovereign," He must always be using His power all the time to control every little detail of everything that happens, even sin, so that it all works out just like He preplanned. According to them, if there's one tiny thing He doesn't preplan/control/cause - even one tiny speck of dust - then it would mean He's not God. Consequently, and despite their insistent denials, this belief of theirs makes God the preplanner, causer, controller of all evil, sin, and unbelief.
But "sovereign" is not about how God must supposedly use His control and power (which is really just Calvinists telling God how God must act in order to be God), but it's about the position of power and authority He holds. God is indeed sovereign and "in control" and all-powerful - the highest authority there it, over and above all - but He gets to decide how and when to use His control and power.
He alone has the last word in everything. He decides what to allow or not allow, when to step in and when to sit back, when to restrain people/demons and when to allow them freedom to act, how to answer our prayers, what boundaries to give us, etc.. And He can take whatever we choose to do (our sins, our disobedience, our obedience, etc.) and work it into His plans. This is how I believe the Bible shows God using His sovereignty and power. Sometimes He actively causing things (but never sin or unbelief) and sometimes He simply allows things (such as our choices and sins) and then He works them into His plans. And so contrary to Calvinism, God can still be sovereign and all-powerful and yet choose to let us have free-will and make real decisions, even ones He doesn't want.
And because our sinful decisions are really our decisions (not preplanned, controlled, caused by God), He is still righteous, just, and holy when He holds us accountable for them - unlike Calvi-god who punishes people for doing what he commanded them not to do but also what he simultaneously predestined/caused them to do, which makes him unrighteous, unjust, and trustworthy.
Sadly, most ordinary Calvinists can't see the damage that Calvinism does to God's character and the gospel. (And they don't even realize they're wearing Calvinist glasses when they read the Bible, and so how can they ever realize they need to take them off?]
Possible consequences of believing in option 2 or 3:
I think options two and three - believing God's plans are fixed and that He plans everything that happens and that everything that happens is because He planned it and caused it - could cause us to be lazy in our spiritual lives and disciplines. If we think we have no real role or responsibility in what happens, then we won't see the value in prayer or think it really matters. We won't put too much effort into our decisions, into obedience, into seeking righteousness. We'll let whatever happens happen because "everything that happens is what God wanted and God always carries out His Will ... right?" (Been there!)
Or maybe, if we think His paths are fixed, we'll stress ourselves out over finding "His Will" because we believe that He planned one particular "right path" for us ... and we have to find it or else! This might cause us to freeze up and panic about making decisions because we're so afraid about missing the path He planned for us, about being "out of His Will." (Definitely been there!)
This thinking also causes pain and heartache when we face tragedies, like a death or natural disaster or illness. Whatever God plans, happens. Right? And so whatever happens is because God planned it, right? (And if God planned it and caused it, then there is no such thing as free-will. We are just puppets on a string, acting out our prewritten roles. Right?) And we are left with the tragic belief that God wanted these bad things to happen, that He planned them, that there was nothing we could have done about it, that prayer doesn't really do anything because everything's been preplanned, that we have to simply accept these tragedies in "humility" and not be upset about them, etc.
But .. did He plan it? Was it “His Will”? Does He always do whatever He wants? Do our prayers make any difference at all? Or is our understanding of God’s Will off? Is it as fixed and "going to happen no matter what" as we think it is? Or do we have more of a role in and responsibility for getting God’s Will done than we realize?
So, which is it?
Is His Will best understood as His desires (what He wants to have happen), His plans (the path He preplanned for us, and we have to find it), or what actually happens?
In order to better understand “God’s Will,” we need to first define it. Desires? Plans? Or everything that happens?
Personally, I think that “His Will” is most accurately defined as what He desires (not an "official" definition, just my own best way to understand it). It’s what He desires for us (the choices He wants us to make and the path He wants us to take, etc.), and it’s what He desires from us (living God-glorifying lives and being obedient, etc.).
[And something I learned well after writing this series is this: If you look up the word "will" in the concordance - from verses about the things God "wills," about what His "will" is - we see that it's often about His desires, His "preferred-will," about what He wants to have happen or wants us to do, about His "best offer" to people which they then have to decide to accept or reject. And so I was right (and Calvinists are wrong) to define it as what He desires for us and from us and to believe that His Will doesn't always happen because He leaves it up to us to accept it or reject it.]
I think that while He does have plans for our lives - paths He wants us to take, decisions He will guide us in if we seek His help and guidance - His Will isn’t a pre-set, written-in-stone path (preplanned steps He wants us to take and decisions He wants us to make about things like what job to get, who to marry, where to live, etc.). It's not about finding the "next step" He planned for us, as if failing to find that step means we will be out of "His Will." And it's not about "whatever happens is because He planned it that way, therefore we have no real control over our behavior, and nothing different could have happened anyway."
I think His Will is more about how He wants us to live - abiding in Him and in daily obedience to Him and His Word - than it is about the particular decisions He wants us to make. And I think He has given us the responsibility to decide if we want to know how He wants us to live or if we want to be blind to it, if we want to obey or disobey, if we want to seek Him or ignore Him, if we want to follow His lead or go our own way, etc..
Contrary to Calvinism, which ultimately believes (after removing all the layers they wrap around it to disguise it) that God preplans and controls everything and so we don't have any real influence over our choices, thoughts, or behaviors, I believe we are truly responsible for our choices ... as in our choices and actions are not predetermined by or controlled by God, but by us. He has given us the right and responsibility to make real decisions (within boundaries), and so we are ultimately responsible for whether we accomplish "God's Will" or not. And if His Will doesn't get done, it's because we failed to do it, not because He planned it that way. If we sin or make a mistake, it's because we chose to, not because He planned it that way. If we end up in hell, it's because we chose to reject the only way to heaven, not because He preplanned it that way.
To Be Clear:
To be clear, I do believe that God does make plans and that when He plans something, He has ways of making sure it gets done. But not by controlling our thoughts and actions, not by causing sin and evil. If we aren't willing to do what He wants, He might find someone else who is. He might wait until the conditions are right, even waiting generations. He might set up situations in such a way that we have to make a choice, to act out what's in our hearts, and then He incorporates our decisions into His plans, without predestining/controlling what we choose to do.
So He doesn't force us to make the decisions we do; He just forces us to make our decision. Our thoughts, choices, actions, and sins are up to us, but He knows how to incorporate it all into His plans. Whether we choose to obey or disobey, to seek Him or to ignore Him, to do right or to do wrong, etc. So one way or another, His plans get done, but in a way that we are truly responsible for our choices and actions.
Is there one pre-set path or do we have choices?
So I'm going to toss out the third option - the Calvinist idea of "God plans everything and causes everything to happen just as it does" - because it's wrong! Way wrong! And it's a futile option to discuss anyway, because if it's true then there's nothing we can do about anything. And so it wouldn't matter what we think or discuss about it. Everything we do would be a charade and totally pointless.
So let's focus on option two for now, the idea that God has "pre-set" plans for us.
I think we make problems for ourselves when we confuse seeking His Will with seeking His “pre-set plans” for us. Because He does not (usually) reveal His plans for us ahead of time. And for the most part, I don't think there are pre-set plans for us, for our individual lives. I think He has preset plans for mankind in general, such as creating us, sending Jesus to die for us, offering us salvation, redeeming us in the end, separating the sheep from the goats, etc. But I don't think He necessarily has preset plans for our lives. I think He's given us boundaries we can't pass, but He's also given us an enormous amount of freedom in the decisions we make within those boundaries, options for how we can live our lives. Yes, I think that in His love and wisdom, He has “best plans” for us, and He will guide us in those if we seek Him and obey. But I do not think that His paths and plans for us are pre-set and unchangeable. They hinge on us. Our behavior, choices, prayers, and obedience to Him and His Word have a major effect on if His best plans for us happen or not.
In the Old Testament, we get an idea of how God works with people. And generally, He lays out two paths: the blessing path and the curse path. Each path has consequences tied to it, but the people decide which path they want to take, by their obedience or disobedience. And because they themselves chose the path they took, they are responsible for reaping the consequences. God did not force them to choose what they did; He just forced them to make their choice. Yes, God has some long-term, overarching plans that He is working out over the course of history (salvation and restoration), and we can’t change those. (Thank God!) But He leaves it up to us which path we take in our individual lives to get to that end. He leaves it up to us if we will choose the "obedience path" or the "disobedience path." And this will affect whether we stay in His Will or not.
I do not think that God always does whatever He desires or that He forces His plans on us (in general). I do not think that everything that happens is because God wanted it or planned it to happen. We have responsibilities and an effect on life, and we are responsible for many of the consequences. And this is just how He has set up life, because He wants people who choose to love and obey Him, not who are forced to. So not everything that happens is “God’s Will.” And His Will does not always get done by us. And finding His Will is not about finding “the next step.” (Sometimes, it is, like when it is time for Him to reveal the next step.)
And this is where I got hung up so many times, especially in our search for a new home. I was needlessly exhausting myself in search of His future plans for my life, for "the next step" He wanted me to take, when I should have been focusing on His Will for me today, for how He wants me to live in my daily life in general, as revealed in His Word and in prayer.
I think that as long as we are living the way He wants us to live daily - in obedience, abiding in Him, reading the Word, praying, speaking truth, loving others, doing our daily jobs for His glory, confessing sin, etc. - the "next steps" will become clear as we go along. We don't have to stress ourselves out finding "the path." If we are walking in daily obedience to Him then we will be walking in His Will, on the path He wants us on, and the next step will become clear in time. Not because we are seeking it, but because we are seeking Him. And there's a big difference! We can save ourselves so much headache, heartache, and confusion if we have our focus right.
If we focus mostly on finding His plans for us instead of on finding Him, then we will miss out on both. But if we focus on finding Him first and foremost, then we will get both, without trying too hard or exhausting ourselves or discouraging ourselves.
God doesn’t promise to reveal His path and plans for us because we’re desperately searching for them. He holds the future and doesn’t let us in on that ahead of time. But He does promise to guide us (one step at a time) and care for us when we are abiding in Him, living the way He expects us to live daily, as revealed in the Bible - living in humble submission to Him, fearing Him, seeking wisdom, living righteously, praying, loving others, taking care of the needy, and obeying, among other things. As revealed in the Bible, these things are His Will for us.
Psalm 25:9,12: “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.... Who, then, is the man that fears the Lord? He will instruct him in the way chosen for him.”
Proverbs 2:1-2,9,11: “My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding ... Then you will understand what is right and just and fair - every good path ... Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you.”
Proverbs 11:3: “The integrity of the upright guides them ...”
Isaiah 33:15-16: “He who walks righteously and speaks what is right ... this is the man who will dwell on the heights, whose refuge will be the mountain fortress. His bread will be supplied, and water will not fail him.”
Jeremiah 6:16: “This is what the Lord says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’“ (Italics are mine.)
Humility, wisdom, integrity, righteousness, seeking “the good way,” and obeying are what will take us down the good, restful path.
But there isn't one pre-set path for our lives. His Will is not about finding the "one path." It's about how we live daily. And we can choose to obey, to abide in the Lord, or we can choose to disobey and go our own way (and face the consequences). We can choose to follow Him when He does reveal a step He wants us to take, or we can refuse to. We can include Him in our choices, or we can ignore Him. His "best plans" for our individual lives don’t just happen apart from our effort, obedience, prayers, and abiding in Him. But how much time and energy do we waste worrying and fretting and wavering, trying to find "His Will, the next step, the one path" when we should be focused on finding Him, on getting to know Him better in His Word and on finding out how He wants us to live today, His revealed Will for our lives, according to the Word?
And so the sobering thought is ... we have a choice in whether or not we fulfill “His Will.” His Will (how He wants us to live, the things He wants from us and for us) is not a mystery; it’s all there in His Word. But do we take the time to discover it? Do we abide in Him? Do we put aside our own selfish desires and plans, in obedience to Him instead? Are we seeking Him, or do we just want to know what “the next step” for our lives is?
Since His Will is about how we live our lives and our obedience to what He calls us to do, I think that His Will goes undone many, many times. When we don’t seek to know what He expects out of us in His Word, when we don’t obey the Spirit’s nudges, when we don’t pray, when we ignore needs that we see, when we do not do the good that we know we should do, when we violate one of His commands, when we are unforgiving, when we don't watch our tongues, etc., His Will doesn’t get done.
Our problem is that we would much rather seek His plans with all our energy than seek Him with all our heart. We would much rather believe that His Will has to do with finding His "preplanned path" for our lives or the next step than it does with reforming our lives. We want a quick open door, not a deep makeover of our spiritual lives and disciplines. We want the blessings without any work or responsibility on our parts. And we want to believe that everything happens because He made it happen, not because it was some consequence of our own doing.
But we do have responsibilities and we do create consequences. His best plans for us don’t always happen because we can choose to obey or disobey, to pray or not, to seek Him or ignore Him. He allows us to do that. And He allows us the consequences. He honors our free-will and our choices and allows us to have an influence over what happens in life, for good or for bad. We have a hand in (and a responsibility in) making His Will happen and in reaping “blessings or curses.” By obedience, righteous living, and prayer.
Yes, God is all-powerful and He does indeed know what is best. And whatever He does is best. But just because He knows what’s best and wants what’s best doesn’t mean that He always causes those things to happen, apart from man’s cooperation. I believe that He voluntarily limits His use of power in causing things to happen. He does not always use His power to force things. He doesn’t always do “His Will,” regardless of us. Oftentimes, He hinges it on us, choosing to carry out His Will with and through mankind. Not because He's not sovereign enough or anything, but because this is the way He wanted it to be. He is not just some "force"; He is an emotional, relational being who wants a real relationship with people. And He couldn't get that with robots. So He chose to make real people with real feelings, thoughts, and abilities to make decisions. That's the way He wanted it to be, and it's apparent all throughout His Word.
Now, I’m sure this has brought up more questions than it's answered. So in the next posts in this series, I want to look at some of the questions you might want to ask about all this. (Some are so long that I broke them up into parts.) And I want to fill in the answers in more depth and with the Scripture that supports it. Now, I hate to be redundant, I really do. I hate being redundant, saying the same thing over and over again, kicking a dead horse, repeating myself. But in the name of being clear and thorough, I will repeat much of what I’ve already said in this intro. And I know it’s all a bit jumbled and messy because there is a lot to say. So please, bear with me.
I think His Will is more about how He wants us to live - abiding in Him and in daily obedience to Him and His Word - than it is about the particular decisions He wants us to make. And I think He has given us the responsibility to decide if we want to know how He wants us to live or if we want to be blind to it, if we want to obey or disobey, if we want to seek Him or ignore Him, if we want to follow His lead or go our own way, etc..
Contrary to Calvinism, which ultimately believes (after removing all the layers they wrap around it to disguise it) that God preplans and controls everything and so we don't have any real influence over our choices, thoughts, or behaviors, I believe we are truly responsible for our choices ... as in our choices and actions are not predetermined by or controlled by God, but by us. He has given us the right and responsibility to make real decisions (within boundaries), and so we are ultimately responsible for whether we accomplish "God's Will" or not. And if His Will doesn't get done, it's because we failed to do it, not because He planned it that way. If we sin or make a mistake, it's because we chose to, not because He planned it that way. If we end up in hell, it's because we chose to reject the only way to heaven, not because He preplanned it that way.
To Be Clear:
To be clear, I do believe that God does make plans and that when He plans something, He has ways of making sure it gets done. But not by controlling our thoughts and actions, not by causing sin and evil. If we aren't willing to do what He wants, He might find someone else who is. He might wait until the conditions are right, even waiting generations. He might set up situations in such a way that we have to make a choice, to act out what's in our hearts, and then He incorporates our decisions into His plans, without predestining/controlling what we choose to do.
So He doesn't force us to make the decisions we do; He just forces us to make our decision. Our thoughts, choices, actions, and sins are up to us, but He knows how to incorporate it all into His plans. Whether we choose to obey or disobey, to seek Him or to ignore Him, to do right or to do wrong, etc. So one way or another, His plans get done, but in a way that we are truly responsible for our choices and actions.
(And not the fake Calvinist idea of "Sure you're free to make your own decisions and to do what you want, so you are responsible for your choices"... but what they really mean is "You are free to make the decisions Calvi-god predestined you to make, free to follow the desires Calvi-god built into your nature - desires you can't change - which will cause you to do what Calvi-god predestined you to do... but you're still responsible for your decisions even though they were predetermined and orchestrated by Calvi-god. But, hey, he is the potter and we are the clay, and he can do whatever he wants, and who are we to talk back to him, so be a good, little, humble Calvinist and shut up and get in line"! That's fake freedom and fake responsibility for our decisions!)
Is there one pre-set path or do we have choices?
So I'm going to toss out the third option - the Calvinist idea of "God plans everything and causes everything to happen just as it does" - because it's wrong! Way wrong! And it's a futile option to discuss anyway, because if it's true then there's nothing we can do about anything. And so it wouldn't matter what we think or discuss about it. Everything we do would be a charade and totally pointless.
So let's focus on option two for now, the idea that God has "pre-set" plans for us.
I think we make problems for ourselves when we confuse seeking His Will with seeking His “pre-set plans” for us. Because He does not (usually) reveal His plans for us ahead of time. And for the most part, I don't think there are pre-set plans for us, for our individual lives. I think He has preset plans for mankind in general, such as creating us, sending Jesus to die for us, offering us salvation, redeeming us in the end, separating the sheep from the goats, etc. But I don't think He necessarily has preset plans for our lives. I think He's given us boundaries we can't pass, but He's also given us an enormous amount of freedom in the decisions we make within those boundaries, options for how we can live our lives. Yes, I think that in His love and wisdom, He has “best plans” for us, and He will guide us in those if we seek Him and obey. But I do not think that His paths and plans for us are pre-set and unchangeable. They hinge on us. Our behavior, choices, prayers, and obedience to Him and His Word have a major effect on if His best plans for us happen or not.
In the Old Testament, we get an idea of how God works with people. And generally, He lays out two paths: the blessing path and the curse path. Each path has consequences tied to it, but the people decide which path they want to take, by their obedience or disobedience. And because they themselves chose the path they took, they are responsible for reaping the consequences. God did not force them to choose what they did; He just forced them to make their choice. Yes, God has some long-term, overarching plans that He is working out over the course of history (salvation and restoration), and we can’t change those. (Thank God!) But He leaves it up to us which path we take in our individual lives to get to that end. He leaves it up to us if we will choose the "obedience path" or the "disobedience path." And this will affect whether we stay in His Will or not.
I do not think that God always does whatever He desires or that He forces His plans on us (in general). I do not think that everything that happens is because God wanted it or planned it to happen. We have responsibilities and an effect on life, and we are responsible for many of the consequences. And this is just how He has set up life, because He wants people who choose to love and obey Him, not who are forced to. So not everything that happens is “God’s Will.” And His Will does not always get done by us. And finding His Will is not about finding “the next step.” (Sometimes, it is, like when it is time for Him to reveal the next step.)
And this is where I got hung up so many times, especially in our search for a new home. I was needlessly exhausting myself in search of His future plans for my life, for "the next step" He wanted me to take, when I should have been focusing on His Will for me today, for how He wants me to live in my daily life in general, as revealed in His Word and in prayer.
I think that as long as we are living the way He wants us to live daily - in obedience, abiding in Him, reading the Word, praying, speaking truth, loving others, doing our daily jobs for His glory, confessing sin, etc. - the "next steps" will become clear as we go along. We don't have to stress ourselves out finding "the path." If we are walking in daily obedience to Him then we will be walking in His Will, on the path He wants us on, and the next step will become clear in time. Not because we are seeking it, but because we are seeking Him. And there's a big difference! We can save ourselves so much headache, heartache, and confusion if we have our focus right.
If we focus mostly on finding His plans for us instead of on finding Him, then we will miss out on both. But if we focus on finding Him first and foremost, then we will get both, without trying too hard or exhausting ourselves or discouraging ourselves.
God doesn’t promise to reveal His path and plans for us because we’re desperately searching for them. He holds the future and doesn’t let us in on that ahead of time. But He does promise to guide us (one step at a time) and care for us when we are abiding in Him, living the way He expects us to live daily, as revealed in the Bible - living in humble submission to Him, fearing Him, seeking wisdom, living righteously, praying, loving others, taking care of the needy, and obeying, among other things. As revealed in the Bible, these things are His Will for us.
Psalm 25:9,12: “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.... Who, then, is the man that fears the Lord? He will instruct him in the way chosen for him.”
Proverbs 2:1-2,9,11: “My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding ... Then you will understand what is right and just and fair - every good path ... Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you.”
Proverbs 11:3: “The integrity of the upright guides them ...”
Isaiah 33:15-16: “He who walks righteously and speaks what is right ... this is the man who will dwell on the heights, whose refuge will be the mountain fortress. His bread will be supplied, and water will not fail him.”
Jeremiah 6:16: “This is what the Lord says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’“ (Italics are mine.)
Humility, wisdom, integrity, righteousness, seeking “the good way,” and obeying are what will take us down the good, restful path.
But there isn't one pre-set path for our lives. His Will is not about finding the "one path." It's about how we live daily. And we can choose to obey, to abide in the Lord, or we can choose to disobey and go our own way (and face the consequences). We can choose to follow Him when He does reveal a step He wants us to take, or we can refuse to. We can include Him in our choices, or we can ignore Him. His "best plans" for our individual lives don’t just happen apart from our effort, obedience, prayers, and abiding in Him. But how much time and energy do we waste worrying and fretting and wavering, trying to find "His Will, the next step, the one path" when we should be focused on finding Him, on getting to know Him better in His Word and on finding out how He wants us to live today, His revealed Will for our lives, according to the Word?
And so the sobering thought is ... we have a choice in whether or not we fulfill “His Will.” His Will (how He wants us to live, the things He wants from us and for us) is not a mystery; it’s all there in His Word. But do we take the time to discover it? Do we abide in Him? Do we put aside our own selfish desires and plans, in obedience to Him instead? Are we seeking Him, or do we just want to know what “the next step” for our lives is?
Since His Will is about how we live our lives and our obedience to what He calls us to do, I think that His Will goes undone many, many times. When we don’t seek to know what He expects out of us in His Word, when we don’t obey the Spirit’s nudges, when we don’t pray, when we ignore needs that we see, when we do not do the good that we know we should do, when we violate one of His commands, when we are unforgiving, when we don't watch our tongues, etc., His Will doesn’t get done.
Our problem is that we would much rather seek His plans with all our energy than seek Him with all our heart. We would much rather believe that His Will has to do with finding His "preplanned path" for our lives or the next step than it does with reforming our lives. We want a quick open door, not a deep makeover of our spiritual lives and disciplines. We want the blessings without any work or responsibility on our parts. And we want to believe that everything happens because He made it happen, not because it was some consequence of our own doing.
But we do have responsibilities and we do create consequences. His best plans for us don’t always happen because we can choose to obey or disobey, to pray or not, to seek Him or ignore Him. He allows us to do that. And He allows us the consequences. He honors our free-will and our choices and allows us to have an influence over what happens in life, for good or for bad. We have a hand in (and a responsibility in) making His Will happen and in reaping “blessings or curses.” By obedience, righteous living, and prayer.
Yes, God is all-powerful and He does indeed know what is best. And whatever He does is best. But just because He knows what’s best and wants what’s best doesn’t mean that He always causes those things to happen, apart from man’s cooperation. I believe that He voluntarily limits His use of power in causing things to happen. He does not always use His power to force things. He doesn’t always do “His Will,” regardless of us. Oftentimes, He hinges it on us, choosing to carry out His Will with and through mankind. Not because He's not sovereign enough or anything, but because this is the way He wanted it to be. He is not just some "force"; He is an emotional, relational being who wants a real relationship with people. And He couldn't get that with robots. So He chose to make real people with real feelings, thoughts, and abilities to make decisions. That's the way He wanted it to be, and it's apparent all throughout His Word.
Now, I’m sure this has brought up more questions than it's answered. So in the next posts in this series, I want to look at some of the questions you might want to ask about all this. (Some are so long that I broke them up into parts.) And I want to fill in the answers in more depth and with the Scripture that supports it. Now, I hate to be redundant, I really do. I hate being redundant, saying the same thing over and over again, kicking a dead horse, repeating myself. But in the name of being clear and thorough, I will repeat much of what I’ve already said in this intro. And I know it’s all a bit jumbled and messy because there is a lot to say. So please, bear with me.
[Note: Calvinists would have a problem with me saying that God's Will doesn't always get done, because they believe that God always carries out His Will and that everything that happens is His Will. But, for one example, consider James 1:27, which says that God wants us to take care of widows and orphans. This is something God wills, that He wants for us - to take care of widows and orphans. But does this always happen? Are all widows and orphans taken care of? No. Therefore, we have to conclude that God's Will goes undone sometimes because of us, our failure to do it. I would place the ultimate responsibility on man for not doing God's Will.
But guess how Calvinists would explain verses like this in light of their belief that everything that happens is God's Will, that He controls all?
They would say that Calvi-god (I call their God "Calvi-god" to distinguish him from the true God of the Bible) causes everything that happens for his glory, and that he sometimes wills us (causes us) to do the opposite of his stated Will because it somehow brings him glory.
If you ask them, "Why does God say He wants all men to repent and believe in Him," they'll say "Because it brings Him glory." But if you ask, "Then why does God (Calvi-god) predestine most people for hell, giving them no chance to repent or believe in Him," they'll say "Because it brings Him glory."
You see, Calvi-god has two Wills: the one he states in the Bible and a secret one which includes everything that happens, even if it contradicts his revealed Will. This is why Calvinists can say, "Sure the Bible says God wants all men to repent (God's stated Will), but He predestines most men to not repent and to go to hell for His plans and glory (Calvi-god's secret "other" Will, which contradicts the revealed one)."
But Calvinists say this is okay because they are both "his Will." They say it's okay for God to have two different wills that contradict each other, for God to state one thing but cause the opposite. And how do they excuse all this nonsense? With "Well, He's God and we're not, and so He can do whatever He wants and we don't have to understand it."
So in Calvi-god's eyes, the sin is as glorifying to him as repenting from the sin. Evil is as glorifying to him as good. Giving into temptation is as glorifying as fighting temptation. Causing abuse is as glorifying as fighting against abuse. Not taking care of widows and orphans is as glorifying as taking care of them. Disobeying his stated Will is as glorifying to him as obeying his stated Will. Because Calvi-god causes everything that happens "for his glory."
How can you trust a god like this? A god who says one thing but causes the opposite? A god who says he wants us to do one thing when he might really want us to do the opposite? A god who gives us commands we have no choice about obeying because he's already preplanned what we'll do anyway? A god who gets as much glory from causing good as he does from causing evil? A god who punishes us for the things he preplanned and caused?
There's something seriously wrong with Calvinism's god! It's just too bad that so many good, God-fearing people have been sucked into it through their desire to honor God and be humble. I believe Calvinism is little more than a brilliant strategy of Satan to use God's Word against God, to use our humility against us, to use our desire to glorify God against Him, etc.. All while disguising his lies as truth.
"... for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light." 2 Corinthians 11:14]
But guess how Calvinists would explain verses like this in light of their belief that everything that happens is God's Will, that He controls all?
They would say that Calvi-god (I call their God "Calvi-god" to distinguish him from the true God of the Bible) causes everything that happens for his glory, and that he sometimes wills us (causes us) to do the opposite of his stated Will because it somehow brings him glory.
If you ask them, "Why does God say He wants all men to repent and believe in Him," they'll say "Because it brings Him glory." But if you ask, "Then why does God (Calvi-god) predestine most people for hell, giving them no chance to repent or believe in Him," they'll say "Because it brings Him glory."
You see, Calvi-god has two Wills: the one he states in the Bible and a secret one which includes everything that happens, even if it contradicts his revealed Will. This is why Calvinists can say, "Sure the Bible says God wants all men to repent (God's stated Will), but He predestines most men to not repent and to go to hell for His plans and glory (Calvi-god's secret "other" Will, which contradicts the revealed one)."
But Calvinists say this is okay because they are both "his Will." They say it's okay for God to have two different wills that contradict each other, for God to state one thing but cause the opposite. And how do they excuse all this nonsense? With "Well, He's God and we're not, and so He can do whatever He wants and we don't have to understand it."
So in Calvi-god's eyes, the sin is as glorifying to him as repenting from the sin. Evil is as glorifying to him as good. Giving into temptation is as glorifying as fighting temptation. Causing abuse is as glorifying as fighting against abuse. Not taking care of widows and orphans is as glorifying as taking care of them. Disobeying his stated Will is as glorifying to him as obeying his stated Will. Because Calvi-god causes everything that happens "for his glory."
How can you trust a god like this? A god who says one thing but causes the opposite? A god who says he wants us to do one thing when he might really want us to do the opposite? A god who gives us commands we have no choice about obeying because he's already preplanned what we'll do anyway? A god who gets as much glory from causing good as he does from causing evil? A god who punishes us for the things he preplanned and caused?
There's something seriously wrong with Calvinism's god! It's just too bad that so many good, God-fearing people have been sucked into it through their desire to honor God and be humble. I believe Calvinism is little more than a brilliant strategy of Satan to use God's Word against God, to use our humility against us, to use our desire to glorify God against Him, etc.. All while disguising his lies as truth.
"... for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light." 2 Corinthians 11:14]
And once again, here are all the links in this series:
Introduction part 1 and part 2
1. Our Impact On God's Will
2. Cause versus Allow
3. God's Will Is A Verb
4. Taking Our Responsibility Seriously
5. Prayer Matters
6. But God Can Read Minds
7. But God Already Knows Our Needs
8. Advice About Prayer
9a. "Name It and Claim It" Nonsense
9b. Help for the Journey
9c. Considering Other Prayer Verses
9d. Idolatrous Prayers
9e. Unanswered Prayer
9f. Maybe God's Not Listening
9g. Other Convicting Verses
9h. Summing Up Effective Prayer
9i. Still Waiting For An Answer
10. Why Do Bad Things Happen?
11. Does Everything Happen For A Reason?
12. God Works All Things For Good
13. Limiting God's Power?
14. Does God Cause Nations To Sin?
15. Is God Sovereign?
16. Can We Change God's Mind?
17. But God Can't Change His Mind
18. Our Responsibilities Regarding God's Will
19. Praying For The Wrong Things
20. Missing The Path
21. Will God Lead Me To Where I Don't Want To Go?
22. So What, Ultimately, Is God's Will?
2. Cause versus Allow
3. God's Will Is A Verb
4. Taking Our Responsibility Seriously
5. Prayer Matters
6. But God Can Read Minds
7. But God Already Knows Our Needs
8. Advice About Prayer
9a. "Name It and Claim It" Nonsense
9b. Help for the Journey
9c. Considering Other Prayer Verses
9d. Idolatrous Prayers
9e. Unanswered Prayer
9f. Maybe God's Not Listening
9g. Other Convicting Verses
9h. Summing Up Effective Prayer
9i. Still Waiting For An Answer
10. Why Do Bad Things Happen?
11. Does Everything Happen For A Reason?
12. God Works All Things For Good
13. Limiting God's Power?
14. Does God Cause Nations To Sin?
15. Is God Sovereign?
16. Can We Change God's Mind?
17. But God Can't Change His Mind
18. Our Responsibilities Regarding God's Will
19. Praying For The Wrong Things
20. Missing The Path
21. Will God Lead Me To Where I Don't Want To Go?
22. So What, Ultimately, Is God's Will?
