Series by Andy Woods: "Neo-Calvinism vs. the Bible"
I've been listening through this series by Dr. and Pastor Andy Woods called Neo-Calvinism vs. The Bible, and I'm finding it really good and informative, covering a lot of aspects of Calvinism, from historical to practical to present-day issues, etc. [I even like his dry, monotone, and slightly-repetitive way of speaking. It's calming to my over-active brain, helping me really hear him and absorb what he's saying.]
He's still adding to this series (and I've only listened up to 13 so far), but here are the links to all the videos he's got in the series up to this point, with a little bit about each one. They're great to listen to while you're doing something like cleaning or cooking or driving or whatever.
The following are links to his website (but here's the playlist on YouTube):
Video #1: About the mixed blessings of Calvinism, including how it helped shaped our American government, and about some of the serious issues of Calvinism and our obligation to admonish false teachers.
Video #2: Some serious issues with Calvinism, particularly related to its view of prophecy/eschatology (apparently, Martin Luther essentially tossed out the book of Revelation... and the book of James, calling it "an epistle of straw") and its view of Israel due to its non-dispensational stance, causing Calvinists to think the Church has replaced Israel instead of believing that God has separate plans for Israel and the Church.
Video #3: More about the impact of Calvinism on prophecy, particularly its misunderstanding the millennial kingdom. He examines the word "saved" and how it doesn't always mean salvation of the soul. And he talks a little about the lack of assurance Calvinists have about their salvation and how it leads to fear that they aren't really saved.
Video #4: About Martin Luther's influence on Calvinism and about how Calvinism leads to antisemitism (apparently Hitler used the writings of Martin Luther to promote his agenda).
Video #5: Jews/Gentiles (the Church); God's plan for the Jewish people; the end times
Video #6: Dispensational theology vs. Non-Dispensational theology/Calvinism; infant baptism; Calvin's atrocities
Video #7: More on dispensations/John MacArthur; Ephesians; prophecy/end times
Video #8: The source of Calvin's theology: Augustine, Roman Catholicism
Video #9: Augustine; Catholic doctrines/apocryphal books; infant baptism; purgatory/indulgences and how the Romans Catholic church got rich
Video #10: Who is John Calvin? Calvin created his theology at 25 years old, after only 2 years of switching from Catholic to Protestant. More about Calvin's manner of life and his rule of Geneva and the executions of Gruet, Servetus, and Belot.
Video #11: More on Calvin's Geneva
Video #12: starting the tulip/Total Depravity
Video #13: More on Total Depravity
Video #14: Total Depravity/spiritual death is "inability" in Calvinism but it should just mean "separation"
Video #15: More on how Calvin overstates depravity and mis-defines death and underestimates what lost man can do
Video #16: More on what spiritual death really is; Ephesians 2:1-5; Calvinism's foolish analogy of equating spiritual death with a physically-dead corpse
Video #17: Acts 17:27; seeking God; the Holy Spirit convicts all people
Video #18: Lost people can seek God, hear from God, reason through things, and believe in God
Video #19: Calvinism's overstatement of sovereignty; election; God's control vs. free-will; reprobation/double predestination; Does God choose us or do we choose God?
[I will admit that when talking about God's sovereignty vs. man's free-will, he reminds me of a Calvinist by appealing to "tension/mystery" - and this raises my hackles. It's icky to my ears, like nails on a chalkboard. But I know he doesn't mean it in a Calvinist way. He goes on to say that Calvinism overstates sovereignty and basically does away with a biblical understanding of true free-will.
And I would say that yes, of course, God is in control and sovereignly reigns over all things in ways we can't always fully comprehend, and it is difficult to always fully understand the interface between God's control and man's choice. But I don't think it's as mysterious as we make it sometimes.
To put it simply: When it comes to God's control vs. man's choices, I believe God allows mankind to make real free-will choices (to choose between real options that are truly available to us, allowing us to decide which one we want to choose and allowing us to change our minds... and to even change His mind sometimes) but God then works our real decisions into His plans to accomplish His purposes. Whether we obey or disobey, whether we chose Option A or B or Z, He is wise enough to know how to work it into His plans to get good out of it. This is how mankind can make real choices and yet God can still be in control over all. "In control over all"... not Calvinism's "controlling all," which is very different. Calvinism makes it much more of a "mystery" - a fabricated mystery - when they claim that God preplans, causes, controls everything we think, do, and choose but that we make "real choices." But it's not as hard to understand when you take off the Calvinist glasses.
And when it comes to God's choice vs. man's choice in salvation, what makes all the difference is that God doesn't choose who believes and gets saved (as Calvi-god does), but He chooses anyone and everyone who becomes "in Christ" by believing in Jesus. And anyone can believe in Jesus because Jesus died for all, salvation is available to all, and everyone has the ability/option to believe.
It's kinda like this: God chose to create two buses and He chose the destination of those buses, what happens to whoever is on those buses: One bus is destined for heaven and the other for hell. But He lets people choose for themselves which bus to get on. And so when people, of their own free-will, choose to get on the heaven bus, He then chooses them for the blessings, benefits, and destination of anyone and everyone who gets on that "in Christ" bus. This is how people and God can choose, at the same time - and it's far less "mysterious" than Calvinism's idea that God predetermines who gets saved but then holds people "responsible" for their "choice."]